You heard me right! The head of the clitoris is extremely sensitive, packed with 8. Connecting you with the best love and sex advice for a healthy relationship! Slide your finger up and down, then side to sides and pay attention what direction she prefers the most. The clitoral shaft hides beneath the skin and is actually one of the most sensitive parts of the vulva other than the clitoral head. Try different moves and pay close attention to what she likes.